Lady D Speaks

Every family arrives at this choice in various ways and for many different reasons. But however you’ve come to it one thing is clear; you’ve decided to homeschool. So where do you go from here? With so many options and opinions out there it’s easy to become overwhelmed merely attempting to take your first step. But from advice, I’ve received from homeschooling veterans and from what I’ve learned I hope to help make this process a little less complicated.

1. Research State Requirement- This may not be what you envisioned when deciding to homeschool, but it is important to have these requirements met before moving forward. Being in compliance will not only prevent potential headaches down the road, but it may provide you with useful tips (i.e. how to correctly remove your child from their current school, etc.). You can choose to research your state’s requirements online or call/visit your local Administrative/Clerical Office for more information.
2. Get Legal Representation- A church member who had a lot of experience in homeschooling was the first person who brought this to my attention. She referred me to https://www.hslda.org/laws/default.asp This law group specializes in all thing homeschool. Not only are they available to represent you (membership fees is required), but their website also has helpful tips that are state specific. Know your rights and have peace of mind.
3. Choose Curriculum- At this stage I found myself spending days looking through all the probabilities. With some suggestions from friends and having my heart set on using materials that were bible based I was able to narrow my choices down. But honestly, you wouldn’t truly know that the curriculum is right until your children start using it. So don’t be disappointed if you have to change it (a few times).
4. Homeschooling Groups- Connecting with local homeschoolers is variable. Your children will have an opportunity to socialize with other kids they can relate too. Groups can also get together to organize events or plan field trips. And bonus, you’ll have a community of like-minded parents to turn to. They’ll not only have resources and experiences to share, but they can be a sounding board for when the days or weeks get rough.

Make no mistake about it; homeschooling won’t be easy at first. Many experienced parents will tell you that it may take a year or two before things start to click. But being able to witness your child master a new skill for the first time is worth it. So take a breath and remember to enjoy the journey.