give thanks

With Thanksgiving just around the corner, we offend take this time to reflect on the events of this year. And those of us with children know that the spirit of thanksgiving is being reinforce with crafts and stories shared by each child in their class. It’s wonderful to see and hear these special moments, and know that they do appreciate them. But why should we wait until this season comes around to have  our children (and ourselves) practice kindness, empathy, and thankfulness.

 

Incorporate these small practices into your everyday life:

1. Saying ‘Please’ and ‘Thank You.’ Manners seem to be slipping now at days. Have your children bring them back by practicing saying it (and hearing you say it) on a daily basis. Being polite is one of the ways we can teach our children how to show that they are grateful. And those around them will appreciate the jester.

2. Give thanks before meals. This is a great way to have everyone pause for a moment. Having food on the table and being surrounded by family/friends is a privilege not everyone has.

3. Discuss world news. Children should know what’s going on (age appropriate of course). It helps them understand that not everyone lives like them. Learning empathy is an important part of understanding what being grateful really means. It will help put things in prescriptive.

4. Have your children accompany/participate in volunteering. Giving thanks shouldn’t just be words. Your actions have a large impact on your children more then your lectures do. Those who you help will truly benefit from your time, and giving back will be a valuable experience for all of you to share together.

5. Share what you’re thankful for. Lead by example is a popular saying for a reason. Your children will learn more about you when you share the things you appreciated when you were their age, and now. Whatever behavior parents modern (good or bad) becomes the norm for a child. And they are more likely to repeat those behaviors long after they’ve left home.

 

So lets all practice being more thoughtful, grateful, and thankful all year long.

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